UPawulos Archuleta / i-Getty Izithombe Sonke sinetyala lokuchitha iiyure-i-heck, iintsuku-zandiselwe i-Food Network, ukunkcenkceshela umlomo njengoko sibukele iipheki ezimnandi zenziwe, sihleka njengabapheki abangakholelekiyo xa bejonga indlela yokulungiselela isitya besebenzisa iilekese zamatye, okanye ukugcuma xa umfanekiso omkhulu wenziwe yokuwa kwekhekhe. Ngoluhlu olukhulu lweemiboniso ezigubungela kubonakala ngathi zonke izihloko zokutya phantsi kwelanga, ayimangalisi into yokuba inethiwekhi ziphakamileyo kakhulu ekubukweni unyaka nonyaka. Ijelo livelise imiboniso engummangaliso kule minyaka idlulileyo, enye yazo Isidlo sangokuhlwa zeDola, Ebonisa uMelissa d'Arabian, ophumeleleyo Inkwenkwezi yeNethiwekhi yokutya elandelayo.
Nangona Izidlo zeDola ezilishumi Ibisemoyeni ixesha elithile ngoku, ilifa layo lihlala kwincwadi yokupheka yase-Arabia enegama elifanayo. I-D'Arabian iye yaqhubeka nokubhala ezinye iincwadi kwaye sele ibonakalisiwe kwimiboniso emininzi evela kwiNethiwekhi yokutya, njengoko kuphawuliwe kuyo iwebhusayithi yakhe . Kodwa yintoni enye into onokwazi ngayo nge-Arabhu?
Umamkeli wedinala weSidlo seeDola ezilishumi ebengasoloko enemali eyoneleyo yokutya okukhulayo
UDavid Livingston / Getty Izithombe Izidlo zeDola ezilishumi kwakuthe tye ngokuthe ngqo, ukubonelela ababukeli ngezimvo zokutya kwiintsapho ezingayi kudlula kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwe- $ 10 kugxilwe ekugcineni ukutya okunempilo kunye nolwabiwo mali. Enye inkcukacha ebingasoloko isenziwa esidlangalaleni, nangona kunjalo, yimvelaphi yeArabian kunye namava akhe okwenyani afuna ukutya okuncinci, okunempilo.
Ngokwodliwanondlebe olwenziwe noArabian HuffPost , Unina weenkwenkwezi zeNethiwekhi yokutya wayengumama ongatshatanga owayeqhuba isikolo sezonyango ngexesha lobuntwana baseArabian. Ukukhula eTucson, Ariz., D'Arabian wafunda kwangethuba ukuba nokuba 'isenzo esilula sokondla umntwana wakho' kunokuba nzima, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kungenzeki kwaphela, ebantwini. Wayehlala eza kwinqanaba lesikolo 'ngaphandle kwesidlo sasemini, okanye imali yesidlo sasemini,' exhomekeke kwinkqubo yokubuyisa esikolweni kwaye ngenxa yoko ehlasela ii-IOUs. Ngelishwa, nditsho neendleko zesidlo sasemini (iisenti ezingama-45, ngokutsho kodliwanondlebe) zazininzi kakhulu kumama wase-Arabia, kwaye intombazana encinci kwafuneka ifumane iindlela ezintsha zokutya zemihla ngemihla.
U-D'Arabian wayenegorha elingenakwenzeka ebusheni bakhe
UDavid Livingston / Getty Izithombe Ngombulelo, u-d'Arabian wafumana iqhawe kwindawo engalindelekanga. Xa umamkeli-zindwendwe onobubele eqaphela imeko ye-Arabhu, waseka indlela yokuba i-Arabhu ifumane isidlo sasemini: Unokunceda abanye ngokutya ukuze batye isidlo sasemini simahla. Oku, uxelele iArabian HuffPost , 'waba nempembelelo enkulu kubomi [bakhe].' U-D'Arabian khange aqonde ngelo xesha, kodwa olu hlobo lwesenzo esenziwe lilungu lesikolo liza kuhlala naye kubomi bakhe obudala kwaye wayeza kusebenza njengenxalenye yenkuthazo kwikamva lakhe lomsebenzi. 'Ndiyabulela ngabantu abaye bafikelela kum, babelana ngobomi ngokutya kwaye bafumana imfesane yokundifaka kwinkqubo yesidlo sasemini esikolweni,' uxelele. ICoronado Eagle kunye neJenali , uqaphele ukuba usebenze ngcono esikolweni enesisu esigcweleyo.
Ngaba fiji amanzi alungile kuwe
Ukukhuliswa ngumama wakhe kunye noncedo lokwamkelwa ngobubele kunikwe u-d'Arabian umnqweno wokuqhubeka nokwenza umahluko kubomi bamanye amabhinqa. Wabelana no Iposi, 'Iintombi zam zazilusapho lwam, sasixhasana. Ndiyawathanda amabhinqa, kwaye ndiya kuhlala ndizama ukunceda naliphi na ibhinqa ukuba lifezekise iinjongo zalo! '
Ixesha elidlulileyo likaMelissa d'Arabian ligcwele yintlekele
Ifoto nguAlexander Tamargo / Getty Izithombe Ngokulula njengoMelissa d'Arabian kunokubenza ubomi bube ngathi, ixesha lakhe elidlulileyo ligcwele imiqobo ekuye kwafuneka ayoyisile. Kudliwanondlebe kunye Umngcelele Xa uMelissa wayeneminyaka engama-20, wafowunela ekhaya ecela inombolo yamakhadi, kodwa wabuliswa ligosa elalimazisa ngokusweleka kukamama wakhe. Umama wakhe wayezibulele, kwaye uMelissa wasala ukuba azinyamekele kwiminyaka ye-20.
'I-20s yam yayiyingxaki,' wavuma Umngcelele. Nangona esi siganeko sibuhlungu sidlale indima enkulu ku-d'Arabian ukuba ngubani namhlanje, wathi 'unomsindo kumama wakhe ngokumshiya engaqondanga kakuhle.' Ngelixa kuyinkumbulo ebuhlungu, inkwenkwezi yeTV yamkela ukuba 'ngekhe abe ngumama [yena] namhlanje - okanye umfazi, umfazi, umhlobo' ngaphandle kokudlula kuzo zonke izidubedube kunye nomzabalazo owafika ngeli xesha lakhe ubomi.
kutheni iimpiko zenyathi zincinci kangaka
Ukuba wena okanye nabani na omaziyo uneengcinga zokuzibulala, nceda tsalela umnxeba iNational Suicide Prevention Lifeline kwa-1-800-273-TALK (8255).
U-Arabhu uhleka abantu bembiza ngokuba 'ngumfazi wendebe'
I-Instagram Ngelixa u-d'Arabian kunye nonina kusenokwenzeka ukuba babetsala nzima ngezezimali ngexesha lobuncinci bakhe, i Izidlo zeDola ezilishumi Umgcini ngokwenyani uqhubeke nomsebenzi ophumeleleyo osebenza kwezemali nakwicebo leDisney eFrance. Kodwa xa yena nomyeni wakhe, uPhilippe, baqala usapho, wayeka umsebenzi wakhe, nangona wayefumana umvuzo ongaphezulu kuye. Kwaye, ewe, siyazi ukuba kamva wagxila kuyo Izidlo zeDola ezilishumi emva kokuphumelela Inkwenkwezi yeNethiwekhi yokutya elandelayo .
Ujika uPhilippe ubambe isikhundla esiphakamileyo eMicrosoft, ngokwe bio yakhe Iwebsite yeCrown Growth , ke sinokucinga ukuba mhlawumbi wenza imali entle. Kwaye, njengoko kuphawuliwe kuMelissa d'Arabian Inethiwekhi yokutya bio , Usapho lwakhe luhlala ngaphandle kweSan Diego, indawo ebiza kakhulu ukuba nendlu. Kodwa loo nto ayithi i-Arabhu ifuna imali yomyeni wayo.
Xa ejongene nokugxekwa ukuba akusafuneki enze uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lokutya kwakhe kuba enomyeni omxhasayo, waqhula HuffPost , 'Umbono wendoda esisityebi ehlawula yonke into endiyenzayo, ngokuqinisekileyo, luhlobo lokuqhula! Mna nomyeni wam siye sahleka ngenxa yoko sikufundileyo ngam, ukuba 'ndingumfazi ophumeleleyo.' '
U-D'Arabian ubengazinzanga ngaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-22
URick Diamond / Getty Izithombe U-D'Arabian akahlali ethetha ngokuziphatha kwakhe, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kukho into evelayo kwaye uya kwenza ingxelo. Umzekelo, ngoJanuwari 2021 Umsonto we-Twitter , waxoxa ngokuzikhethela kwakhe ukuhlala enganxilanga. Yena ibango ukuvuleka kakhulu ngesigqibo sakhe, ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba 'uninzi lwabantu aluyazi le nto.'
Umxholo uvele emva kweBachelorette UTayshia Adams Ekugqibeleni ukhethe ukuba nomntu okhuphisana naye UZac Clark , ngubani ophilileyo, njengoko kuphawuliwe ngu Abantu . U-D'Arabian uvakalise ezinye zeenkxalabo awayenazo ngaphambi kokuba ahlaziye, kwaye yamkelwe ukuba wayezibuza, 'Ndiza kugqiba iminyaka engama-30 ndingaselanga okanye nditshate ngenye imini ngaphandle kwe-champagne?' Nangona engakhange athethe ukuba kutheni ethathe isigqibo sokuba angabinangqondo- kwaye yena ayibangi ukuba lukhetho olulungileyo kuye wonke umntu - ngoku ubenganxilanga ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-22. Naye utshilo Obu 'bomi bumnandi buyamangalisa.' Uqhubeka usenza, Melissa d'Arabian.
