Ubomi bukaRee Drummond buTshintshile njani ukusukela oko uMfazi onguVulindlela esasazile-uKhethekileyo

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URee Drummond eqongeni Ifoto nguBryan Bedder / Getty Izithombe

URee Drummond, owaziwa ngcono kuninzi njengoMfazi onguVulindlela, akakho mntu ungaziwayo kuluntu. Waqala ukubhala malunga nokutya kunye nosapho emva kwi-2006 (kwiintsuku zokuqala zebhlog) kwaye kungekudala waba yenye yezona blogger zibalaseleyo nezibhiyozelwayo kwiwebhu, ephumelela amabhaso e-'Bloggie 'ukuqala unyaka nje omnye emva kweposti yakhe yokuqala. Ngonyaka ka-2011, wayefumana ngaphezulu kwesigidi se-23 sokujonga iphepha ngenyanga, ngokutsho ENew Yorker .

Oko kwakulungile malunga nexesha laxa iDrummond yasungula eyayo iNethiwekhi yokuboniswa kokutya- kwegama elifanayo, ewe- eliya lisomelela iminyaka eli-10 (nge IMDb ). Kubantu abaninzi, ukuqala komboniso weTV odumileyo kwihlabathi lonke kuya kuba sisiganeko esiguqula ubomi kwaye sibaluleke ngokwenene; kodwa ngokuhambelana nendlela yakhe eqhelekileyo, yaphantsi komhlaba ukuya kuyo yonke into, kwiDrummond, ukubamba umboniso ophumeleleyo, oqhuba ixesha elide ibiyinxalenye nje enye yobomi bakhe.

Ngapha koko, ngexesha lodliwanondlebe kunye noMashed, uDrummond watyhila ukuba akazange azive ngathi ubomi bakhe butshintshile ngeendlela ezimangalisayo, nokuba yimpumelelo ' Umfazi onguvulindlela Umboniso kamabonwakude - kodwa uyayithanda indlela eliyivulele ngayo umhlaba.

'Kwiindlela ezininzi [ubomi bam] abutshintshanga. Ndisahlala kwindlu enye, ndihlala kwi ifama enye . [Kodwa] ngezinye iindlela, ivuliwe, hayi nje amathuba, kodwa luhlobo lwehlabathi kum. Ndazi abantu endingazange ndibazi-iqela lam lekhamera, umzekelo, e-UK Kodwa ndikwanxibelelana nabantu ababukela umboniso wam eMzantsi Afrika nase-Australia nakwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi. Ke ivule umbono wam, umhlaba wam ngeendlela ezininzi. Ibilude kakhulu uhambo. '

Kuyinyani ngakumbi njengoko indlela yakhe ebomini yayingalindelekanga kwaphela: UDrummond wafunda ubuntatheli kunye ne-gerontology, ecwangcisa ekugqibeleni ukuya kwisikolo sezomthetho (nge ILos Angeles Times ). Ude azibize 'njengompheki ngengozi.'

Umfazi onguvulindlela uhlala eyinto yonke malunga nosapho, kwiscreen nangaphandle

URee Drummond nonyana wakhe UMonica Schipper / Getty Izithombe

Ukuba kukho into enye eyonwabileyo Drummond ngokuchitha ishumi leminyaka efota 'Umfazi onguvulindlela,' kukuba uhlala esenza umboniso njengosapho. ' Abantwana bam zikhulile ngokusisiseko. Umncinci wam wayeneminyaka esixhenxe- eneneni sithandathu - xa ndiqala ukuzalisa umboniso wam, kwaye uneminyaka eli-17 ngoku. Ke ndinayo le ncwadi yakudala yabantwana bam abakhulayo njengoko bendisenza le nkqubo yokupheka. '

Kwaye kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo, abantwana bakhe bebabini kwiscreen nangasemva kwemiboniso, nabo. 'Ngexesha lobhubhani, ndiqalisile ukufota nabantwana bam kuba abasebenzi bam bavela e-UK kwaye khange bakwazi ukubuya kwaye baqale ukufota kwakhona. Ke iNethiwekhi yokutya indinike imvume yokusebenzisa ii-iPhones kunye nabantwana bam kwaye ndiye ndaya kwifilimu ngaphezulu kweziqendu ezingama-50 esele zisasazekile kwinethiwekhi yokutya. Ke [abantwana] babone okuninzi emva kweziganeko ngokwenziwa kwesoseji. '

Esi senzo sokusebenza kunye nokuxhomekeka kusapho lwayo sinyanisile ngaphaya komdlalo, kananjalo, njengoko uDrummond kutshanje ecele enye yeentombi zakhe ukuba zincedise kwicala lobuchwephesha kumnyhadala wokuthenga oqhutywa ngu Walmart . Ngokuqinisekileyo, unabasebenzi abathandathu abamncedayo kwiWebhusayithi yoMfazi onguVulindlela, ephantse ayiphindaphinde kathathu loo nombolo esebenza kwimagazini yakhe engaziwayo, kunye nenkxaso eninzi evela kwiNethiwekhi yokutya nangaphaya (nge Umfazi onguvulindlela ), kodwa uyazi ukuba angathembela kubantwana kunye naye Umyeni uLadd ukuza ngexesha xa ezifuna.

Jonga incwadi yokupheka entsha kaRee Drummond, ebetha amashalofu ngo-Okthobha u-2021.

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