Imifanekiso kaGetty / Getty Izithombe UMartha Stewart , umenzi wekhaya owaziwayo, isiqingatha semogul , kunye I-ex-con , ebengatshatanga kangangeminyaka eliqela ngoku, ukusukela oko yena kunye nomyeni wakhe wexesha elide u-Andrew Stewart baqhawula umtshato ngo-1990. U-Andrew (aka Andy) waphinda watshata kungekude emva koqhawulo-mtshato, kodwa u-Martha, ngoku oneminyaka eyi-79, akatshatanga nangoku. unxano yenze izindululo ezimbalwa, ngokwe Abantu .
Ngelixa uMartha ahlala esidlangalaleni eluntwini, umyeni wakhe wangaphambili ukwazile ukunqanda ingqalelo enkulu kwimithombo yeendaba kule minyaka ingamashumi idlulileyo njengoko uqhawulo-mtshato oludumileyo lwesibini luye lwaphela kancinci kancinci kuluntu. Uninzi lwabantu mhlawumbi alwazi nokuba ngubani u-Andrew Stewart okwangoku, nangona impumelelo enkulu kaMartha igcine imeko yakhe njengegama lekhaya iminyaka (kwaye mhlawumbi iminyaka ezayo). Benza njani abantu ababini abahlukeneyo bachitha phantse iminyaka engama-30 kunye? Sijonge ibali lothando lukaStewart nangaphaya ukufumanisa inyani malunga noAndrew Stewart ongenakulinganiswa.
UAndrew noMartha Stewart badibana bengaboni kwaye batshata beselula
Andrew Stewart wadibana UMarta xa wayeneminyaka eyi-23 kwaye efundela ubugqwetha eYale. UMartha Kostyra (njengoko wayesaziwa ngelo xesha) wayengumzekelo wobugcisa, esebenza ecaleni ngelixa efumana isidanga kwimbali yaseYurophu nakwimbali yokwakha kwiKholeji yaseBarnard (nge Imagazini yaseNew York ). Aba babini babekwa bengaboni, kwaye kwiminyaka kamva, uMartha uxelele iNew York Magazine ukuba isibini esiza kuba yinkwenkwezi kungekudala 'sathandana nomhla wokuqala, olo hlobo lwento.' Kunyaka nje kamva, ngoJulayi ka-1961, batshata.
Ikhaya lokuqala likaMartha noAndreya njengabantu abasandul 'ukutshata yayiyindlu yokugcina indlu engama-21 kumgangatho ose-Upper East Side. 'Yayintle intombazana encinci yaseNutley, eNew Jersey!' UMartha wabhala Ixhalanga . Babe kunye iminyaka engama-29 kwaye babenomntwana omnye kunye, uAlexis Stewart, ngaphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni baqhawule umtshato kwi-1990.
Yena noMartha Stewart babenomntwana omnye
Ifoto nguLarry Busacca / Getty Izithombe Ngo-1965, uMartha Stewart noAndrew babenomntwana wabo wokuqala kunye nokuphela kwakhe, uAlexis Stewart. UStewart wakhuliswa kwisiXeko saseNew York, kwaye ngokwencwadi yakhe yasebhombu ka-2011 Nantoni na: Ukufunda ukuhlala apha , Ubuntwana buka-Alexis yayingelophupha lasekhaya kwiimagazini zikamama kunye neethelevishini. 'Ndikhule ndiphethe umpu weglue entlokweni yam,' ubhale watsho uStewart.
Nangona wayengahambelani kakuhle nabazali bakhe, uAlexis wavuma ukuba imeko yakhe yokugxeka yayiyinxalenye yokubeka ityala kwimpixano phakathi kwabo. Isimo sam sengqondo sahluke kakhulu kunesikamama, ngoko ke andinakuphikisana naye ... Akakho, utshilo u-Alexis Imagazini yaseNew York .
Uluhlu lweentaba zombethe weentaba
Okwangoku, oko akuzange kumthintele ekubeni abhale yonke incwadi malunga nendlela kanina 'yokusondela ekukhuliseni abantwana.' UAlexis wade wathi uMartha wayezithiyile iiholide, etshabalalisa umamkeli odumileyo 'cheery persona. IHalloween yayikwangumbandela ombi: Kwakungekho zinxibo. Kwakungekho nto, wabhala. 'Sicime zonke izibane kwaye senza ngathi asisekho ekhaya.'
U-Martha Stewart wamgxotha kwiholide yabo yasemva komtshato
Emva kokuba uMartha noAndrew Stewart betshatile ngo-1961, bahamba baya eYurophu ukuya kwiholide yabo yomtshato - kodwa yayingeyiyo yonke le nto yokuhamba ngesibini esidumileyo, nokuba kwasekuqaleni. Ngoxa baseFlorence, e-Itali, uMartha noAndrew badibana 'nendoda entle yesiNgesi.' NgokukaJerry Oppenheimer kwi Desserts nje , yakhe yonke incwadi malunga noMartha Stewart, isiNgesi sasela ezimbalwa kunye nabasandul 'ukutshata kwi-bar yehotele ngokuhlwa. Xa uAndy wayefuna ukuyibiza ebusuku, uMartha wayenazo ezinye izicwangciso.
'Ecaphukile kwaye enomsindo, uAndy waya kulala yedwa ngelixa uMartha ehamba nomhlobo wakhe omtsha,' u-Oppenheimer wabhala. Ngokucacileyo, uMartha wamjikisa umyeni wakhe ukuba asele nenye indoda-kwiholide yabo yomtshato! Xa ekugqibeleni wabuyela kwigumbi labo lehotele, uxelele uAndy ukuba uye kubusuku bobusuku (ngaba umntu othile waziva enetyala kancinci, mhlawumbi?). Ngelishwa, ubudlelwane babo abuzange bube ngcono kakhulu ukusuka apho.
Uthando luka-Andrew ngo-Martha Stewart aluzange luphindwe
Ifoto ngu-Elsa / Getty Izithombe Kwincwadi kaJerry Oppenheimer, Desserts nje , epapashwe ngo-2007, wathetha ezininzi UMartha Stewart kunye nabahlobo abasenyongweni bakaAndrew ababesithi umtshato kaStewart wawungacacanga ncam kunemifanekiso yabo emenyezelayo yemagazini. UMartha utyhola umyeni wakhe rhoqo, kwaye ababesebenza kwikhaya likaStewart eWestport, eConnecticut, bathi wamphatha 'njengenja yenja.'
Wayehlala emtyhola ngokuba 'sisidenge' okanye 'usisidenge,' 'u-Oppenheimer wabhala (nge Imeyile yemihla ngemihla ). 'Kwakukho amaxesha apho kwakubakho uxinzelelo olupheleleyo nolugcweleyo kunye nokuzola okuthe chu phakathi kwabo owawunokusika ngemela.'
NgokukaNorma Collier, iqabane lokuqala likaMartha kwezoshishino, 'uAndy wayemthanda uMartha ngokunzulu, kodwa wayehlala edelelwa okanye engxoliswa nguye' (nge Abantu ). Ngaphandle kwendlela esiboniswe ngayo esi sibini kumajelo eendaba, kubonakala ngathi uMartha wayenokuba nguzwilakhe- kwaye ngubani ongcono ukuyikhupha ngaphandle kwendoda eyayimthanda kakhulu?
UMartha Stewart waluthatha nzima uqhawulo-mtshato-ngakumbi xa uAndrew eqala ukuthandana nowayesakuba ngumncedisi wakhe
Amy E. Ixabiso / i-Getty Izithombe Ngaphandle kwesityholo sokukhohlakala kukaMartha Stewart kumyeni wakhe, uqhawulo-mtshato wakhe noAndy Stewart yayilelona xesha libuhlungu. UMariana Pasternak, umhlobo wakudala kaMartha, wathi uMartha wayeyimaneja kwiminyaka emva kokwahlukana kwesi sibini.
Njengoko uPasternak uxelele i INew York Post , UMartha wafuna ingqalelo kumadoda emva komtshato 'ukuze angqine kuye ukuba uyathandeka. Ndicinga ukuba uAndy wamshiya wamenza waziva engathandeki.
UAndy wayeyaziwa ngokuba 'ziingqondo' emva kwempumelelo kaMartha, kwaye xa baqhawula umtshato emva kweminyaka engama-29 bekunye, uAndy waqala ukuthandana (kwaye ekugqibeleni watshata) owayengumncedisi wasekhitshini kaMartha, edala iintlungu kuMartha. (Omnye usenokuthi ufanelekile, kodwa asizukuzivela izimvo ezinjalo.) NgokukaPasternak, uMartha wayedla ngokuhlola uAndy ezinzulwini zobusuku, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha wayekhathazeka kakhulu yile ntlekele kangangokuba wayezibetha ngamanqindi wakhe wakhupha iinwele zakhe.
UAndrew noMartha Stewart bobabini babengathembekanga emtshatweni wabo
Ifoto nguShannon Finney / Getty Izithombe UAndrew noMartha Stewart babeneengxaki ezaneleyo emtshatweni ezenza ukuba kuqhawulwe uqhawulo-mtshato oluninzi- mhlawumbi eyona nto iphambili kuluhlu zizenzo zabo zokungathembeki. Emva kokuba uMarthas echithe ubusuku kunye nomntu angamaziyo ngelixa wayethandana kunye noAndy, kuya kusiba kubi. Ngesinye isikhathi, kwelinye lamaqela amaninzi amaStewarts abamba kwaye aya khona, uMartha wathandana nomlingane kaAndy. Wahlala ethangeni lakhe, kwaye ngokutsho kwakhe, 'bekukho i-chemistry eninzi ehamba zimbini iindlela' (nge Imeyile yemihla ngemihla ).
Elinye ixesha, xa uMartha noAndreya babesilwa, uMartha wavuma ukuba ulele nenye indoda kuhambo lweshishini. UJerry Oppenheimer uthumele impikiswano kwincwadi yakhe, Desserts nje, ebanga ukuba uAndy wothukile kwaye wakhathazeka, ngelixa uMartha wayisusa ngokungathi yayingeyonto inkulu.
Kodwa uAndy naye wamkhohlisa uMarta. U-Oppenheimer wabhala ngesinye isihlandlo apho esi sibini saba nengxabano eyakhokelela ekubeni uAndy athi ayinguye uMartha kuphela owayenolwalamano- babonakala ukuba bobabini babengathembekanga omnye komnye.
UMartha Stewart wayecinga ukuba 'unetalente ngakumbi' kunoAndrew
Ubutyebi Ubushushu / vf20 / Getty Izithombe Nangona uAndrew wayenomsebenzi ophumeleleyo wakhe njengomongameli weHarry N. Abrams indlu yokupapasha, udumo lukaMartha Stewart lwalusoloko lusigquma. UAndy wayesazi ukuba uMartha waziva emkhulu kunaye kwaye wayekhe wathi 'akakunyamezeli ukungakhathali kwam okanye ubudenge bam okanye i-eccentricities yam' (nge Abantu ).
UNorma Collier, ongomnye wamaqabane kaMartha ngaphambili, uxelele Abantu ukuba wakhe weva uMartha ethetha noAndy ngelixa wayesebenza umcimbi wokutya. 'Ndinetalente ngakumbi, kwaye kufanelekile ukuba ndithathe imali ethe xhaxhe kwishishini,' utshilo kumyeni wakhe, omsebenzi wakhe wawuchasene nokucinga kukaMartha.
I-lidia bastianich inexabiso elifanelekileyo
Ngoku ka CNN , UMartha wayehlala esebenza, nto leyo eyadala umsantsa phakathi kwakhe nosapho. 'Ubomi bam ngumsebenzi wam kwaye nomsebenzi wam bubomi bam, utshilo. Wayedla ngokwenza ukuba usapho lwakhe lumncede ngokungathi umsebenzi wakhe ngowabo. Umntu owayesakuba ngumqeshwa uxelele uJerry Oppenheimer ukuba kanye, xa uAndy wayenza igadi endlwini yabo eConnecticut, uMartha wema 'ebeke izandla esinqeni, ekhwaza esithi,' Andy! UAndy! Yiza iesile lakho apha ngalo mzuzu! Ndinomnye umsebenzi ekufuneka uwenze '' (nge Imeyile yemihla ngemihla ).
UAndrew kunye nentombi yakhe khange bathethe iminyaka emva koqhawulo-mtshato- uAlexis wayenobudlelwane obubi noMartha Stewart
UMalcolm Brown / Getty Izithombe UAndy Stewart uxelele Abantu ukuba uyazisola ngendlela yena noMartha abakhulisa ngayo umntwana wabo ekuphela kwakhe, uAlexis. Ndicinga ukuba senze umsebenzi ombi njengabazali. Sasibandakanyeke kakhulu kubomi bethu bobuchwephesha kwaye silungisa indlu, utshilo. 'Khange sichithe xesha laneleyo noLexi.'
Ngelishwa, bobabini abazali baka-Alexis baye bafumana imiphumo yokungahoywa kwabo kwangoko. UAlexis akazange athethe noyise iminyaka, kunye nencwadi yakhe, Nantoni na: Ukufunda ukuhlala apha wabelane nabanye ngeempendulo ezimbi zikaMartha nehlabathi.
Okwangoku, uAlexis wayekuso ngokusondeleyo kunina kunoyise, kwaye ngaphandle kwengxwabangxwaba phakathi kwabafazi babini, uAlexis uhlala emkhusela umama wakhe xa abagxeki bemhlasela (nge Imagazini yaseNew York ). Kwelinye icala, uAlexis wayenobunzima ekuxolelaneni noyise.
'Akakwazi ukumxolela indlela aziphethe ngayo,' utshilo uMartha Imagazini yaseNew York. Ngokwabahlobo bosapho, uAlexis watyhola utata wakhe ngokushiya kunye nokuqalisa uqhawulo-mtshato.
'Ngumthombo wentlungu enkulu kum,' watsho uAndy Abantu . 'Ndicinga ngaye yonke imihla, amaxesha amaninzi.'
Umyeni kaMartha Stewart uAndrew wasebenza njengomshicileli
UAndrew Stewart ufumene isidanga kwezomthetho kuYale kodwa wachitha nje iminyaka embalwa njengegqwetha ngaphambi kokuba aye kwilizwe lokupapasha. Imagazini yaseNew York uxele ukuba usebenze njengegqwetha elidibeneyo kwiTimes-Mirror Corporation ngaxeshanye uMartha wayeqala uMartha Stewart, Inc.
Emva kweminyaka embalwa eqinile, u-Andy wafudukela kwicala lokupapasha lenkampani, indima ayigcinileyo njengokuba umsebenzi wakhe uqhubeka. Ekugqibeleni, waba ngumongameli weHarry N. Abrams, Inc., inkampani epapashayo ngoku eyaziwa njenge Iincwadi zika-Abrams . Indlu yokupapasha igxile kubugcisa, kwimifanekiso, nakwiincwadi zabantwana- imisebenzi kaStewart iyancedisana.
Emva kwexesha, uStewart waqhubela phambili wenza eyakhe indlu yokupapasha, uStewart, uThabori kunye noTshintsho. Bapapasha uhlobo olufanayo lweencwadi njengoHarry N. Abrams - uhlobo olugcina kwitafile yakho yekofu enemifanekiso emikhulu, ecwebezelayo ngaphakathi- kwaye ezi nkampani zimbini zidityanisiwe ekugqibeleni zaba ziincwadi zeAbrams ezikhoyo namhlanje (nge INew York Times ).
