Sivavanya ngokuzimeleyo zonke iimveliso kunye neenkonzo ezicetyiswayo. Ukuba ucofa amakhonkco esiwabonelelayo, sinokufumana imbuyekezo. Funda nzulu .
Ubudlelwane bufana nomntakwabo omncinci opholileyo we-Thanksgiving-konke ukutya, ukuzonwabisa kunye nebhola, kodwa akukho nanye idrama yentsapho. Iholide yavela kumaqela abantu abathi, ngenxa yesizathu esinye okanye esinye, abakwazanga ukuba kunye nosapho ngexesha leholide (okanye bengenalo usapho abanokuba nalo), kwaye iye yathandwa kakhulu kulo nyaka uphelileyo okanye njengokuhamba. Izithintelo kunye nokungena ekuhlaleni kwagcina abantu esibathandayo bahlukana.
Njengomntu othanda ukonwabisa kwaye akatshatanga kulo nyaka, ndigqibe ekubeni ndiwamkele lo mbutho kwaye ndibambe iFriendsgiving yam yokuqala. Ndaphendukela kwingcali ukuze ndifumanise ukuba, ngokuchanekileyo, ukwenza njani oko.
UAlexandra Shytsman, umbhali we Ukunika abahlobo: Bhiyozela usapho lwakho lwabahlobo (yithenge: $6 kwi Amazon ) kunye nongqondongqondo emva kwebhlog IBaguette eNtsha , ibibamba iFriendsgiving ukusukela ngaphambi kokuba ibe negama. Isithethe saqala ngenxa yokuba usapho lwakhe lufudukele eUkraine kwaye aluzange lubhiyozele uMbulelo ebomini babo. Kodwa u-Shytsman wayeyithanda kakhulu le holide kwaye wayefuna ukuyidubula, ngoko ke wathenga iturkey waza waqalisa ukumema abahlobo bakhe. 'Ndisaqhubeka ndikwenza oko kude kube namhlanje neqela elinye labantu,' utsho.
Nanga amanye amacebiso akhe angcono ekusingatheni olona ncedo lubalaseleyo lwabahlobo.
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Iingcebiso Zokubamba Ubudlelwane Bakho bokuqala
Namathela umhla.
'Into yoku-1 endiyifundileyo kule minyaka idlulileyo kukuba kufuneka ucwangcise kwangaphambili,' watsho. Abantu bahlala besenza izicwangciso zempelaveki yoMbulelo, ngoko kunokukunceda ukuba wenze umbhiyozo wakho ngaphambi okanye emva koko (unokwenza umxholo weqela le-Thanksgiving-leftover).
Fumana intloko.
Nokuba wenza umgaqo-nkqubo wocango olujikelezayo olungacwangciswanga, kufuneka wazi ukuba kungakanani ukutya omawukwenze ukuze ungatyi kakhulu okanye ungoneli. Ukuba wenza isidlo se-potluck-style, u-Shytsman ucebisa ukuba usebenzise i-spreadsheet ekwabelwana ngayo apho abantu banokubhalisela le nto bazisa yona ukuze ungagqibi ngeepayi ezintathu ze-apile kwaye akukho saladi.
Yiba nomxholo.
Ezinye iindwendwe ziza kuba noMbulelo wesintu, ngoko ke ukuba nomxholo (cinga: isityalo-isiseko okanye ukutya okuvela kwilizwe elithile) kunokwenza indibano yakho ibe yodwa kwaye incede ukuqondisa abantu kwi-atmosfera kunye noko kufuneka bazise ngokutya. Okanye, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha izinto, unokwenza ukuba wonke umntu eze Umhlobo wedizethi eyona ilungele uphawu lwabo lwezodiac .
Gcina i-decor yakho ilula.
'Andingomkhulu kwiibhaluni okanye kwiipleyiti zephepha,' utshilo uShytsman. 'Ndiyathanda ukuthatha amathanga amancinci okanye ama-sprigs erosemary kwaye ndiwagcine etafileni.' Kwaye xa usebenzisa ukutya njengokuhombisa, unokuphinda ukusebenzise ekuphekeni kamva.
Eyona Mihombiso yokuGcina ubuhlobo kuyo yonke ibhajethiSebenza phambili.
Yenza ngathi ungumpheki ochwephesha kwaye ulungelelanise i-mise yakho kwindawo ngaphambi kwexesha, ucebisa uShytsman. Yenza uludwe lwazo zonke izinto onokuzenza kwangaphambili: yenza uqweqwe lwepayi okanye ukuzalisa, unqumle itswele, njl.njl. Ngomhla wetheko, yenza kuphela oko kubaluleke kakhulu. Kwaye qiniseka ukuba imenyu yakho ibandakanya izitya ekunganyanzelekanga ukuba zinikwe zishushu zonke.
Beka i-snacks.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, abantu baya kufika ungekagqibi ukupheka. Yiba neziselo (ezifana nezi cocktails ezinkulu ze-Friendgiving ) kunye ne-snacks abanokuthi bazibambe njengoko bexubana ukuze ugqibe ukupheka, uShytsman uthi. Okanye, enye inketho kukushiya imisebenzi elula efana nokunxiba isaladi kwiindwendwe zokuqala ukunceda. Kwaye, uthi, zinike ixesha elininzi lokupheka kunokuba ucinga ukuba uya kulidinga.
Ceba ukuzonwabisa.
'Kulungile ukuba nesicwangciso sento eniya kuyenza emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa ngaphandle kokulala nje kakhulu,' utshilo uShytsman. 'Yiba nemidlalo embalwa ejikeleze ukugcina amandla abantu enyuka emva kwesidlo. (Zama ezi 9 Imidlalo yobuhlobo eyonwabisa ngakumbi kunebhola ekhatywayo .)
